The Personal

The Personal

Self-Doubt and the Importance of Remembering Your ‘Why’

WARNING: There’s going to be a lot of omphaloskepsis in this post. If you think you’re going to struggle with that, I suggest you look away now. For those of you who are staying with me, I also want to say I am no self-help guru or life expert. But life in recent months has […]

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The Personal

Rules of Engagement: Why We Need to Be Respectful of Minorities’ Time and Space

  I had (what I’m now going to call) a rather insightful week last week, and I learned some valuable lessons.  Lessons that I think life has been trying to teach me for some time now that I haven’t really been listening to, thinking that things are and will be fine and I can just […]

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Adoption: why is it seen as the lesser option?

  CN/TW: This post contains graphic descriptions of childbirth. I’m nearly 30. As is the custom, I’m at that age where older family members and some older friends start asking me questions that are not only intrusive but are actually really annoying. “When are you going to get married?” “Do you want to have children? […]

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